YOUR ASCENSION ARCHETYPE IS...
The Performer
"I’m Powerful Even When I’m Still"
You are The Performer
You were born to shine—and you know how to turn it on.
Your presence is magnetic.
Your energy is unforgettable.
You know how to lead a room, hold attention, and carry the weight of people’s expectations.
But deep down, you’ve started to ask:
Who am I when I’m not performing?
What would it feel like to be safe without producing?
Can I build success that doesn’t require me to constantly perform for it?
Here's the truth:
The Performer Archetype isn’t about faking. It’s about a powerful heart that learned early on to lead through charisma—even when your soul needed space to exhale.
You’ve built something remarkable.
But your next level? It doesn’t require a bigger stage.
It requires a safer altar.
Your Business in This Season:
You likely run a personality-driven brand, or you’re the visible face of your business.
People come for your energy.
But your energy is becoming expensive to maintain.
You’ve scaled by being “on”—but you’re craving a way to build with more rhythm, more rest, more permission to be human.
The money is coming in.
But rest still feels like a threat.
And silence still feels like punishment.
Your Performer Profile
- Core Identity: Proving
- Divine Design: The Messenger
- Core Energy: Magnetic, Expressive, Captivating
- Primary Belief: “I have to earn success by doing more.”
- Energetic Posture: “I have to prove I belong at the table.”
- Spiritual Pattern: Seeks identity in achievement
- Emotional Landscape: Exhausted, anxious, secretly wondering if it’s all worth it
- Where You're Stalled: You fear slowing down because you equate rest with irrelevance
- The Shift: From Proving → To Purpose. Release the need to earn your worth. Anchor in your divine value.
Your Strengths
As a Performer, your ability to draw attention effortlessly and convert through emotion and connection makes you a natural force in the marketplace. You don’t just market, you move people. Your presence inspires, energizes, and amplifies visibility, while your gift for storytelling and emotional attunement allows you to engage your audience in ways strategy alone can’t.
These strengths are powerful because they create influence and impact, but without inner stability, they can become exhausting. If you are not careful, you won’t be able to leverage these gifts without burning out. Often this is you root your magnetism in external validation not internal safety. But you can make the shift with the right support as you recognize that when your nervous system feels secure, your presence becomes sustainable, and your visibility stops costing your vitality, allowing you to scale influence without sacrificing your well-being.
How You Sabotage
As a Performer, your deepest sabotage often hides behind what makes you powerful, your ability to captivate and connect. You naturally crave validation, and when visibility becomes your lifeline, you over-deliver to earn approval. This constant need to be “on” creates a cycle of overwork and emotional depletion that eventually leads to burnout. Left unchecked, the very qualities that make you magnetic can trap you in performance mode, where every move feels like a bid for applause instead of authentic alignment.
Your Challenge to Scaling
Your scaling barrier isn’t about creating demand, it’s sustaining it without sacrificing yourself. Performers often build thriving front ends: strong brands, powerful marketing, and high engagement. But behind the curtain, the backend is fragile because the entire business relies on your presence to perform. If you step back, revenue slows. If you unplug, operations stall. This dependency makes scaling feel like a threat because growth requires less of you, not more.
Support You Most Need Next...
To scale with sustainability, you need boundaries around output so your nervous system stops associating worth with work. You need systems that sell without your face, allowing your influence to move without your constant presence. And most importantly, you need deep identity work to separate your value from applause, so your power isn’t conditional on performance. You are the very reason we created SANCTUARY. SANCTUARY provides this recalibration, teaching you how to build from internal security instead of external validation. When you master this, your brilliance expands without burning you out.
YOUR next move IS...
WHAT YOU NEED NOW
You need a sacred space to:
- Detach your worth from your output
- Heal the part of you that equates love with performance
- Build offers, systems, and wealth structures that don’t rely on your constant presence
- Regulate your nervous system so you can lead with power—not pressure
- Rewire your relationship with visibility, voice, and validation
SANCTUARY is the sacred recalibration space for Legacy-Led CEOs™ like you.
It’s where you come home to the truth.
You are enough—even when you’re off stage.
You are valuable—even when no one is watching.
You are safe—even when you’re not performing.
In SANCTUARY, you’ll experience:
- Soul-deep money healing based on your unique Archetype
- Identity restoration that releases performance-based pressure
- Business recalibration that aligns with nervous system integrity
- Spiritual anchoring practices that let you lead from rest, not reaction
You don’t need to shrink. You just don’t need to perform to be powerful anymore.
Want to Be the First to Enter SANCTUARY?
We’ll email you as soon as the doors open. But for now, declare it:
I’m done performing for my purpose.
I lead with peace. I move with grace. I build from overflow.
Meet our Founder,
DR. DARNYELLE JERVEY HARMON
Darnyelle Jervey Harmon is the CEO of Incredible One Enterprises, LLC, a multi-million dollar coaching and consulting brand. Best known for transforming the lives of her business coaching clients, Darnyelle equips her clients to leverage and scale businesses that serve them financially and spiritually. From mindset to messaging, marketing, sales, systems and scale, Darnyelle can take you from six figures to seven figures in record time all while deepening your connection to God and strengthening your faith.
Darnyelle is an award-winning CEO, speaker, consultant and strategist whose work has been featured in Essence, Success, Black Enterprise and O Magazines. She is a best-selling author with 7 books to her credit, including her latest projects Burn the Box: 7 Fire Starter Strategies Leaders Can Leverage and Market Like a R.O.C.K. Star. In 2012, she was named Coach of the Year by Stiletto Woman Media and in 2013, she was recognized as a Small Business Champion by Small Business Trends. In 2018, she was awarded the Women Presidents Organization’s Women of Color Excellence Award and she joined the $1MM class of Enterprising Women of the Year. In 2019, Darnyelle was named the Black CEO of the Year and was a finalist for the eWomenNetwork Made It to a Million Award. In 2021, Darnyelle was awarded two honorary PhDs in entrepreneurship.
Darnyelle has a Bachelor of Arts degree from the University of Delaware, a Masters of Business Administration from Goldey Beacom College, a Kolbe Specialist Certification from the Kolbe Corporation, an Executive Coaching Certification from the Center for Executive Coaching and a prophetic anointing from God.
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